Am I ejaculating too quickly when I'm in bed? Do women find it funny that I don't have much sexual stamina? When I have sex with my girl, am I really making her happy? Do these sound like things you've been wondering about recently? Don't be embarrassed if they do. In fact, as many as 40% of guys worry about not being able to stay in bed long enough. So you're not the only one who ends too soon during sex. Some guys have it so bad that they ejaculate as soon as their partners enter them.
If you're like a lot of guys who wish they could live longer, you probably have a lot of questions about ejaculating too early. If so, you should read this piece. Keep reading to find answers to three questions that people often ask.
How long does a man usually stay in bed?
Most people use five to ten minutes as a guide, but most guys are closer to five minutes. When you consider that it takes most women an average of 15 minutes to reach an orgasm through vaginal penetration, it's clear that most women can't fully enjoy the joys of making love.
Is it always better to last longer?
Most guys agree. But here's what's really going on. You only have to keep going as long as she needs to get an orgasm. And it doesn't even have to happen through the cervix! You see, there are many different ways for women to reach their peak. A woman can have an orgasm from foreplay, oral sex, and even thought seduction. As long as she gets an orgasm, it doesn't really matter how long you pierce her as long as she does. Hint: During foreplay, take your time and build up to a peak before contact. Even if you don't last more than 30 seconds in bed, you are still better than 99% of guys.
I don't have much time, but I want to impress a hot date in bed. What can I do?
There is an easy and quick way to fix this. About an hour or two before you're going to have sex, make love to yourself. By "clearing up your pipes" and letting go of your sexual stress, your penis will become less responsive, and it will take longer to get it to the same level of excitement. This quick fix can help you gain important minutes when you have sex. She also wouldn't know anything about it.
Who wrote the book:
Lloyd Lester wrote "Ejaculation By Command," which is a full, step-by-step plan to help guys stop ejaculating too soon and stay in bed longer. Visit Ejaculation By Command to learn how to improve your sexual stamina and enjoy transformative sex.