If you want to know how to stop ejaculating before you should, you need to start with the facts. After all, how can you treat a problem, no matter how common it is, if you don't know what caused it?
Fact #1: Am I ejaculating too early?
Start at the beginning. Do you have rapid ejaculation? It happens a lot to men. But I won't say you have it if all you do is say you can't sleep for more than an hour. In reality, premature ejaculation is when you urinate before you or your partner want you to.
I can understand how frustrating and painful it is for you when you can't make your women happy over and over again. The good news is that most of the time it has nothing to do with health. Even better, you don't have to put up with it forever. There are real ways to get PE under control for good.
Fact #2: Why do I ejaculate before I should?
Well, it's generally caused by two things.
1. Genetic programming: This is the result of years of training genes. Sex is mostly for making babies, not for having fun. After all, what did men in the Stone Age care about making their wives happy? Men aren't programmed to live longer because of their genes. So don't give up. You are not to blame. You are just the result of how well Mother Nature makes people have babies.
2. Nervous system that is too sensitive: When guys are younger, their nervous systems are more sensitive to sexual feelings. Because of this, more young guys get PE. As you get older, your health should get better.
The good news is that if your nervous system works well, you are less likely to have erectile dysfunction (another common sexual problem), even as you get older.
Fact #3: Should I see a doctor?
In all likelihood - no. You can make an appointment to see a doctor to make sure nothing is wrong with you. After all, you don't need to keep worried if a simple antibiotic can fix the problem!
Fact #4: How can I make a woman happy even if I ejaculate early?
In reality, different women take different amounts of time to have an orgasm during sex. Some may take up to 20 minutes to reach the peak, while others may only need 5! The trick is to know YOUR woman well enough to know what she wants and how to give it to her. Does she like to kiss first? What about kissing? These are all great ways to get her excited before you even start penetrating her.
Who wrote the book:
Lloyd Lester wrote "Ejaculation By Command," which is a full, step-by-step plan to help guys stop ejaculating too soon and stay in bed longer. Visit Ejaculation By Command to learn how to improve your sexual stamina and enjoy transformative sex.