Is it possible for a guy to learn how to control his ejaculation and give his partner more sexual pleasure than she could ever imagine? This may seem like a lot for any man to handle. After all, ejaculating too early is by far the most common problem guys have in the bedroom. And if you're trying to last longer during a sexual encounter, it's even harder to focus on giving her the most pleasure. Or is it? How about we find out?
Getting her interested first (NOT you)
Studies show that both men and women are more likely to hit their sexual peak at about the same time. But there is a big difference between the two. Women are more self-conscious and insecure about their bodies, which distracts them mentally and makes it take them longer to get excited.
In a strange way, this is good for guys. You should start out slow, paying attention to her body and giving her compliments. Give her enough excitement in her non-sexual areas before you move on to her sexual areas. This will make her feel better about herself and buy you time so you can stay together longer.
Priming Her For An Orgasm
When a woman is excited, she tends to stay there longer than a man does before she starts to get closer to an orgasm. The key is to keep her interested in what you're doing. At this point, you can take her clitoris. While you're penetrating her, you should also use your fingers to stroke her clitoris in slow, gentle strokes.
At this point, your breathing and heart rate are likely to speed up. Don't let your breathing get out of control, or you'll be off to your own orgasm in no time. Instead, pay attention to taking deep breaths and slowly inhaling and releasing. This will help to loosen up the muscles in your abdomen and keep them from getting too tight.
Race to the Finish: Keeping Yourself Aware and in Charge
When she's getting close to climax, if you change your position or the rhythm, speed, or strength of penetration, she may go back to the beginning. Try to take your mind off the feelings in your penis and put it on other parts of your body. For instance, pay attention to how your arms support you during penetration and how your abdominal muscles bend. This makes you more aware and gives you more control, giving you more time before you reach the point where you can't go back.
Who wrote the book:
Lloyd Lester wrote "Ejaculation By Command," which is a full, step-by-step plan to help guys stop ejaculating too soon and stay in bed longer. Visit Ejaculation By Command to learn how to improve your sexual stamina and enjoy transformative sex.