A great way to enjoy sex is to give your partner a lot of happiness and make sure she orgasms every time. Now, why don't you take this a step further and make your own ending even cooler and more exciting?
Here are two great tips for having sexual fun that will blow both of your minds.
Tip #1: Make your staying power last longer
Let's face it. Most guys have an orgasm BEFORE their partners do. But if you can hold off on your own climax until she reaches hers, your ejaculation will be bigger, harder, and much more enjoyable when it comes. The steps are...
Instead of focusing on how your genitalia feel when you have sex, pay attention to how the good feelings spread through your WHOLE body. When you feel like an orgasm is coming on, stop for a while or just slow down. Or, use this time to keep giving her a "pleasure continuum" through oral sex (hint: women love this!). This will let your level of arousal drop a few steps until you're ready to thrust again. Keep doing this until you feel ready to let go.
Tip #2: Keep your orgasm to yourself
When it's almost time to ejaculate, your hips will start to squeeze on its own. Just before this happens, squeeze your PC (or pubococcygeus) muscle and hold it in for as long as you can. This muscle is the same one you use to stop pee from flowing. When your orgasm finally comes, because you've been holding it off on purpose, it will burst out with all its power, giving you a very pleasant feeling when it's over.
Here's the thing, though. Like any other muscle in your body, the PC muscle needs to be strong for you to be able to ejaculate for a longer time. Most guys' PC muscles are already pretty weak because they have never been worked out.
The good news is that it's easy to make the PC muscle stronger. Start doing Kegel movements by squeezing and holding your pelvic floor muscle for 5 minutes every day. Within a week, it will be much stronger, and you'll be able to use it to stop yourself from having an orgasm until you're ready.
A great finish will also turn her on.
When you reach a great climax, your girlfriend or wife will also feel great. She'll feel very aroused and want to do it with you every time you have sex. So make sure she has a great orgasm first, and then use the two tips above to give her a strong finish. Your sexual life will change forever.
Who wrote the book:
Lloyd Lester wrote "Ejaculation By Command," which is a full, step-by-step plan to help guys stop ejaculating too soon and stay in bed longer. Visit Ejaculation By Command to learn how to improve your sexual stamina and enjoy transformative sex.