Let's face it. When it comes to sex, guys face a lot of problems and maybe even feelings of insecurity in the bedroom. But maybe nothing is as important as the age-old question that most men have been asking for a long time: how do I stop ejaculating too soon during sex?
For a woman, being able to have an orgasm quickly seems like a far-fetched dream. But for a guy, ejaculating too quickly during sex is a major problem that can ruin even the best relationship if it isn't fixed. But you're not the only one who can't make it past 4 minutes of sex. You have the support of almost 75% of all men. You are definitely not the only one who wants to find a way to make sex last longer and be better.
But first, if you want to live longer, you have to have the right attitude...
This is the most important thing. You don't have to use the latest sprays, creams, or ointments to have more energy. It's all about having the right mindset and attitude during sex. This is what makes the difference between beginners who ejaculate as soon as they hear "GO" and real men who can control their ejaculation almost on order.
Mind Over Body
We all know that the mind, not the other way around, rules the body. When guys finish too soon, they let their bodies take over. They let the sexual excitement get too strong until they can't stop an oncoming orgasm no matter how hard they try to think about something else. When you get to the "point of no return" during sex, you can't stop ejaculating anymore.
...And the Right Way to Think
Even when it comes to sex, it's best to be honest. You don't need to feel bad that you're not staying with her long enough. You just have to tell her that you're getting too excited too soon because she has turned you on so much and you'd love to return the favor. Women like guys who are honest about their sexual shortcomings.
You don't have to stop making love after you come. You can and SHOULD keep making her feel sexually aroused. It's not like your penis is the only "tool" you have. In fact, penetrative sex rarely gives most women an orgasm. So get down on her if you want (women love oral sex) and keep romping her erogenous spots with your fingers. This shows that you are sexually confident and that you are in charge, which turns women on!
Trust me, having confidence is the first and most important step to stopping early ejaculation and staying in bed longer. Take that first step with courage!
Who wrote the book:
Lloyd Lester wrote "Ejaculation By Command," which is a full, step-by-step plan to help guys stop ejaculating too soon and stay in bed longer. Visit Ejaculation By Command to learn how to improve your sexual stamina and enjoy transformative sex.