Okay, dudes, who else wants to know how to make sex last longer? Most of you would probably love to do that, right? You shouldn't feel bad about wanting to live longer. Men's Health says that as many as 70% of men want to know how to increase their physical endurance. So you're with good people!
There is a big difference between what guys want and what women want, which is sad...
The key to GOOD sex isn't just to stay together longer...
Okay, it's great to be able to last long enough. But for most guys, the "end goal" of sex is the big climax. For women, what really matters is how they get to the end goal, which is their path to an orgasm.
Most men want to get stronger because they think that's the only way their partners can have fun with sex. The truth is that if a woman has sexual activity for 15 minutes or longer, it can be pretty uncomfortable and even painful. This is because pushing all the time usually dries out the vagina.
So how do you deal with this?
To have GREAT sex with your woman, all you have to do is learn about her sexual wants. Each woman is different. Each woman has her own preferences when it comes to making love. For example, she might want to be touched in certain places on her body. Some women like long physical play, while others like to talk about dirty things under the sheets. Some people like the "missionary style," while others think "doggie style" is very hot.
Find out what she likes and focus on that, no matter how long you can stay with her. Oral sex is always a good choice. Your tongue has the biggest muscle on your body for how small it is. If you know how to go down on a woman, you can give her amazing sexual feelings.
So now it doesn't matter how strong a man is?
It's still important, but you only have to do it for as long as she needs to get an orgasm. And when you learn to pay attention to her sexual wants and make her more aroused first, her orgasmic threshold will go down.
The less she cares about how long you can last, the faster she gets to the peak. So, if it takes her 15 minutes to get the big "O" on average and you can cut that down to 5 minutes (for example, through good foreplay), you only need to last 5 minutes. Makes plenty of sense, doesn't it?
Who wrote the book:
Lloyd Lester wrote "Ejaculation By Command," which is a full, step-by-step plan to help guys stop ejaculating too soon and stay in bed longer. Visit Ejaculation By Command to learn how to improve your sexual stamina and enjoy transformative sex.