Are you having trouble staying in bed long enough? You don't need to feel bad or embarrassed about it. There are many more guys than you who ejaculate too early during sex, so you are definitely not alone. And there are a lot of things you can do to stop ejaculating too early, meet the woman in your life, and completely change your sex life.
If you look around, you'll probably see a lot of pills, patches, and sprays that claim to work miracles and guarantee that you will stay in bed for hours. The truth is that these answers are only short-term fixes that don't get to the root of the problem. Worse, many of these products are known to irritate the skin, cause allergic responses, or even make you less sensitive to sexual stimulation. So, doesn't that take away the fun of sex? You bet!
Well, keep reading for three useful tips that work much better than the fad answers you see in stores. Once you know how to do these things, you'll be able to last much longer and enjoy sex much more. Keep going...
#1: Change up your habits:
It's important to know when to stop. I know it's easy to get carried away by how you feel and let that take over. But if you want to give her the same amount of pleasure and not let her down, stop before you hit the Point of No Return (PNR). Once you get to the PNR, you have to ejaculate, even if her grandmother walks into the room. So before you get to that point, take your penis out and use your fingers or your mouth to stimulate her.
#2: Keep your breathing in check:
Take in big breaths. By focusing on your own breathing, you take your mind off of how good it feels to be with someone else. If you do this enough, it will "hold you back" for a much longer time.
#3: Instead, pay attention to her:
Here's what's real. You want to stretch out your orgasm so that you can satisfy her physically, right? So, if you reach your peak too soon, it helps a lot if you just concentrate on making her happy FIRST. Get her excited with a lot of pre-play. Touch her "hot spots" and tickle them with your hands and fingers. Even just oral sex can make her want to do the job before you even start.
You shouldn't feel bad about yourself just because you're not staying with her long enough. With these simple tips, you can start to become the fun and confident man you've always wanted to be—and totally rock her world in bed.
Who wrote the book:
Lloyd Lester wrote "Ejaculation By Command," which is a full, step-by-step plan to help guys stop ejaculating too soon and stay in bed longer. Visit Ejaculation By Command to learn how to improve your sexual stamina and enjoy transformative sex.