When it comes to staying in bed longer, many guys choose to use one of the many products on the market. Sprays, creams, and pills that promise to make you last longer in bed are expensive and need to be used every day. They also don't fix a man's lack of sexual stamina permanently. But did you know that taking certain positions during sex can make it last longer?
That's right. Some positions, like the traditional missionary role that many men like, are known for having a peak too soon. Let's quickly look at two positions that will give you a LOT more control and help you last longer during sex.
The Tease of a "L"
Let your woman lie on her back while you stand or sit at the edge of the bed. Your body and hers should make a "L" shape. Start by making slow, shallow thrusts while keeping your abdominal, buttock, and leg muscles relaxed. This pose works really well because when your body is upright, it helps to pull blood and energy away from your extremities. This makes your penis feel less stimulated, keeps you from getting too excited, and helps you last longer.
Also, being in this position lets you use your hands to stimulate the sensitive parts of her body even more. Use a pillow to lift up her bottom to make the experience even more exciting for her. This makes it easy for you to find her G-spot and touch it.
"The Woman in Charge"
The typical missionary position puts a lot of stress on the muscles in your hands and legs. When your body is tense, it is more likely to orgasm early because it wants to find a way to get rid of the stress.
Let your wife or girlfriend get on top of you instead. Since you are lying down, you can totally relax all of your muscles and stop your body's natural way of letting go early. This is a great way to build up your stamina and make sex last longer.
When you are in this position and start to feel an orgasm coming on, all you have to do is keep your muscles relaxed and you won't ejaculate (or it will take a long time to happen).
The great thing about the female superior position is that it gives your woman more control over the penetrative movements. This gives her the freedom to MAXIMIZE her own joy. At the end of the day, a woman knows immediately what speed, intensity, and angle of penetration will make her feel the most satisfied.
Who wrote the book:
Lloyd Lester wrote "Ejaculation By Command," which is a full, step-by-step plan to help guys stop ejaculating too soon and stay in bed longer. Visit Ejaculation By Command to learn how to improve your sexual stamina and enjoy transformative sex.